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Pam Delany's avatar

Such a flow to your writing -- engaging, intriguing, evocative. If it proves to be a fluke I read these first two chapters, I'm delighted. Fluke will be a Christmas present to a few on my list. Who knows what changes that may bring. Cannot wait to read the rest of the book.

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Sunni (Sun) Brown's avatar

Brian, first:

Congratulations on getting another surely-excellent book into the world. I think of your work often and deeply admire what you teach.

Second: I asked you a few weeks ago if you had an origin story that may have contributed to your interest in madness, corruption, evil, etc. and you said you didn't...but learning about a mass murder in your own family at age 20 sure doesn't sound irrelevant. So my new question to you is: Do you think that discovering this family story at a fairly tender age influenced your interest in social psychology? If so, how so? If not, why not?

Third: Your work comes to mind often because of my own work related to inner science and inner engineering - a practice I call Deep Self Design - because, through my own life experiences, I learned the hard way that anyone can go dark / become malevolent / turn dangerous and destructive, etc. depending on the circumstances. People prefer to think of ourselves as somehow statically "good" or "virtuous," but this idea is totally divorced from reality and is, in itself, dangerous in the sense that being ethical is both a practice and a choice. You can't count on its solidity and it must, therefore, be tended and cultivated, preferably with a community of practice. Which leads to my fourth comment:

What drives me up the wall in so many Western-based paradigms is our inclination to constantly try and make reality binary. We pose silly questions at the beginning of an exploration - is this phenomenon due to this OR that? - and then we spend an exorbitant amount of time grappling with the hyper-simplicity of our own question. Sunday Schools (just as an example of an institution that you mentioned) should never teach totalizing, ultimately stupid shit, like "people are good or bad" and "X linearly causes Y" and "if you do these 10 things, you will go this place." It completely misses the reality of complex, multivariate systems which can and do hold seemingly paradoxical realities all the time. For me, one of the biggest indicators of a courageous intellect is one that doesn't NEED to make the world binary or fit it into a box so that WE feel more comfortable. I get it: Life is uncertain and it's very, very comforting to think we can predict and control it. But that kind of thinking leads to bad outcomes over and over again. That list is endless.

Anyway, my morning rant. I'm excited for your book and I really appreciate what you focus on and share. Big ups to you, always.

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